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May 24, 2011

be irresistible

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irresistable: charmingenchantingfascinatinginvinciblelovableoverwhelmingpowerfulseductivestunningtemptingunavoidable.

Don’t give up on a single one of your dreams or goals, if they are true dreams and true goals.

Christopher has prepared a list of how to be irresistable:

  1. Learn from nature – patience, trees
  2. Be still – “not doing” can actually increase our creativity
  3. Be persistent – unconquerable spirit never grows old
  4. Value little moments as much as big ones – celebrate the joy and spontaneity of life
  5. Love balance –  only the strong can be gentle
  6. Be interested in other people – If you can find out what makes someone excited or happy – their eyes will glow and friendship will flow.
  7. Be kind 
“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.” – Oscar Wilde
Wikihow knows how to be charming:
  1. Improve your posture
  2. Smile with your eyes – if you look at someone and then smile, it instantly charms them.
  3. Remember people’s names –  The more you say a person’s name, the more that person will feel that you like them and the greater the chance they’ll warm up to you.
  4. Be genuinely interested in people
  5. Take into account topics that interest those around you
  6. Praise others – mention something you like about that person
  7. Issue compliments to raise others self esteem – find a creative way to say it and say it immediately
  8. Accept compliments –  enjoin this with “I’m glad you like it” or “It is so kind of you to have noticed.”
  9. Control your tone and voice
  10. Listen
  11. Assume rapport
  12. Use kindness with respect
  13. When you greet someone, make them feel like they are the most important person to you.
[…] Being a leader gives you the charisma – Seth
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